Saturday, March 28, 2026

Friends And Family

 Winter Getaway

Stick to the basics. Hold on to your family and friends – they will never go out of fashion. - Anonymous

Through all our winter wandering, I’ve come to realize again and again that in every conceivable manner, family and friends as well are linked to my past, a bridge to my future. Family ties mean that no matter how much I might want to run from family, I can’t.

 So, I celebrate them both in this final post.

What a strange creature brothers are! - Jane Austen

Left: Chickenjoy fried chicken and peach mango pie with "BUNSO" (Youngest) Brother. JOLLIBEE, Waikiki

 Right: What’s a tiki’s favorite drink? "Aloha-cohol!"

Sharing food is like sharing a secret, but with more calories!

Left: With HUBBY, slurping soft, fluffy shave ice flavored with lychee and mango

The best surfer out there is the one having the most fun. - Phil Edwards

Right: YOUNGEST BROTHER Surfer Wannabe. Duke’s, Waikiki

Me: I wanna go on a diet.

Food: Ha-ha-ha. No!

A family-owned shop established in 1951, MATSUMOTO SHAVE ICE serves shave ice, original t-shirts, and goods. Haleʻiwa, Oahu's North Shore

 Rub my belly for good luck!

Right: YOUNGEST BRO after authentic Cantonese dim sum style lunch. LEGEND SEAFOOD RestaurantHonolulu, Hawaii

Phones down, forks up. It's family dinner time.

 On the sand on famed Waikiki Beach, DUKE’S offers the freshest seafood and its iconic HULA PIE, a mountain-shaped Hawaiian dessert featuring macadamia nut ice cream piled high on a chocolate cookie crust, topped with chocolate fudge, whipped cream, and toasted nuts.



An hour with your GRANDCHILDREN can make you feel young again. Anything longer than that, and you start to age quickly. 

Watching "Avatar," a groundbreaking sci-fi epic. KAHALA MALL, Honolulu



Our GRANDSON is absolutely awesome. He must have inherited it from his groovy old Lolo.


Volleyball practice. Instagram photo posted by "Cartercaptures", Kaiser High School photographer. Honolulu





I told my worries to mango away. They didn’t listen. I’m sorry… did I roll my eyes out loud? 

Left: Precious time with FOURTH BROTHER snacking on our favorite tart mango with bagoong. Right: Walking through Chinese New Year-decorated mall. Taguig, Philippines

There’s no Buddy like a brother.

Lunch: okoy, lumpia fresca, pancit, pampano, pork belly, cassava cheesecake, mango and watermelon shakes

LORE by Chef Tatung is a Michelin Guide-selected contemporary Filipino fine dining restaurant. Taguig, Bonifacio High Street Mall

They said we’d never make it. Well, here we are, proving them wrong… again!

UP HIGH 65TH REUNION. DINKY'S CLUB HOUSE. Manila



Umm… these people are old. Are you sure we’re at the right reunion?

 

UP MED REUNION

CASA GAMBOA, a Heritage home in Silay, hosts private dinners, cultural tours and intimate events.


You can’t turn back the clock. But you can wind it up again. – Bonnie Prudden

The LACSON RUINS are the remains of the ancestral mansion of Don Mariano Ledesma Lacson and Maria Braga Lacson. Talisay, Negros Occidental

Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter. – Mark Twain

Privately-owned NEGROS MUSEUM is the first of its kind to not house precious archaeological artifacts, but was designed to display Negrense lifestyle and society, which includes old furnishings and loaned items from ancestral houses. Bacolod, Negros Occidental

It appears someone invited a lot of old people to the class reunion.

GATHERING AT DR. P's MOROCCAN MANSION. Bacolod

The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age. – Lucille Ball




Leftmost: NINONG PATING had gifted SECOND DAUGHTER with stuffed FROGGY on her baptism.






Above, right: FROGGY has survived the years, here seated on SECOND DAUGHTER's baby red chest. GRANDKIDS' ROOM, Columbus



ALCOHOLICS, No Longer Anonymous

We thought about quitting drinking, but we're not quitters.

 

One day each year spent together fills our souls for the next 365 days.

TORIO SIBS and Family Reunion 

DAD'S WORLD BUFFET is a premier, long-standing buffet in the Philippines offering over 200+ dishes, including Kamayan (Filipino), Saisaki (Japanese), and international stations. Known for favorites like lechon, sushi, and carving stations, it is a popular, high-value choice for large family gatherings and celebrations.



I smile because you are my brothers. I laugh because there’s nothing you can do about it.

Left to right: My now-beloved FIFTH, FOURTH, SECOND and FIRST BROTHERS - all of whom I used to ignore when we were growing up (LOL)


My brother has the coolest sister… I’m just saying.

Memorable time with SECOND BROTHER and family

Left: The RIZAL SHRINE or BAHAY NI RIZAL is a reproduction of the original Spanish-colonial bahay na bato where national hero José Rizal was born on June 19, 1861. Showcasing his childhood, it features a two-story house, a library, and a garden with a bahay kubo.

Right: TAGAYTAY is a popular holiday town south of Manila. Known for its mild climate, it sits on a ridge above Taal Volcano Island, an active volcano surrounded by Taal Lake.

You know it’s a family reunion when the laughter is loud and the food is endless.

 Lunch: fried tawilis, sigarilyas sa gata, tortang talong, bulalong Tagalog, kare-kare bagnet, green mango shake

RSM AL FRESCO Lutong Bahay serves delicious Filipino cuisine with a great view of Taal Lake in Tagaytay.

Dessert: sago and gulaman, maja blanca, puto bumbong, ice cream

BALAY DAKO is a casual venue with Taal Lake views offering traditional local fare and fusion cuisine.

Celebrate, indulge, and feast like a Viking today!

ESPIRITU Cousins and Family Reunion

VIKING’S LUXURY BUFFET offers a diverse array of flavors.

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 And just like that, our Winter Getaway ended. Back to reality. Ugh!



Wise Words Yoda Speaks. Truly wonderful, life is – until someone says, “Let’s circle back.”

Your path you must decide – but maybe sleep on it first.





The best part about a holiday is after it’s over.

Yet, though vacation ends, memories travel with us, and joy remains.

Our suitcases are heavier with Eng Bee Tin hopia and bagoong, but our hearts are light with joy.

And, hey, we haven’t forgotten that retirement is just a never-ending vacation. So there!

(Hoping It's Not... The End)


Saturday, March 21, 2026

Heritage and Sacred Places

Winter Getaway

Travel makes one modest. You see what a tiny place you occupy in the world. - Gustave Flaubert




Our getaway wasn’t just all about food.

It also led us to highly-recommended and awe-inspiring landmarks.

Come and see.

Feeling the beauty and love around

THE RUINS in Talisay, Bacolod is a stunning, romantic, and "ruined" 1900’s mansion built as a testament to love, often called the Taj Mahal of the Philippines. 



Painting a smile on a MASKARRA mask at Jojo Vito’s Design Studio: Bacolod



When you and your reflection both agree you look amazing

When you take the bull by the horns… what happens is a toss-up. -  William Ridge

 The NEGROS MUSEUM presents in a capsule the bounty that is the history, art, and culture of the people of Negros Island. Bacolod, Negros Occidental

Gator kisses. See you later, alligator. After a while, crocodile. Blow a kiss, jellyfish.

 NEGROS FOREST PARK has been the jewel in the crown of local wildlife conservation for over 20 years in Bacolod City.



This church is prayer-conditioned.

 BAMBOO CHAPEL. Nature’s Valley Resort: Talisay, Bacolod



SAN SEBASTIAN CATHEDRAL is a late 19th-century Roman Catholic church in Bacolod, Negros Occidental. It is the seat of the Diocese of Bacolod.


Its stained glass is the poetry of light, transforming space into a sacred realm. Each piece is a window to the divine, illuminating the ordinary with extraordinary radiance.




Right: Black Nazarene, a life-sized dark statue of Jesus Christ carrying the True Cross

Rightmost: Crucifix, a cross with an image of Jesus on it, as distinct from a bare cross. The representation of Jesus himself on the cross is referred to in English as the corpus (Latin for 'body').



PIETA

Mary cradles the body of Jesus after he has been removed from the cross.





Situated in Hacienda Manaul, ST. JAMES THE GREATER CHURCH stands as the first replica of the Medjugorje church in the Philippines and Asia, and the fourth worldwide.



Left: This is how an awesome priest looks like.

 Leftmost: We have a Prophet-sharing plan.

A child reciting the Hail Mary with, "Blessed art thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy whoomp Jesus!"

Wrist assured, I’m stylish today. Caught in a loop of fabulousness.

Left: Located within the St. James complex in Talisay City, OUR LADY OF LOURDES GROTTO is a serene pilgrimage site featuring a replica of the Lourdes grotto in France.
 
One day, you are strutting your stuff… the next day, you are a feather duster. That’s life.
 
Right: Peacock on the ground of the Grotto
 

The Grotto serves as a popular venue for healing masses, the WAY OF THE CROSS, and personal reflection.

 (To Be Continued)



Saturday, March 14, 2026

Fiesta!

 Winter Getaway

Our winter getaway in the past months had a lot of special moments worth documenting, so I thought, why not do an epic photo dump post?

Most of the days were, in a word, a fiesta. Let's start with a photo buffet of these.

All mine. There is no “we” in food.

 Left: Halo-halo Overload. Seafood City: Waipahu, Honolulu

Right: Home-baked birthday yema cake. Bonifacio Global City, Taguig



Today is fruit day. Beware of the durian!

 

Fresh fruit sari-sariSilay



Our superpower? Finding room for dessert even after a full meal.

Left: Hula pie. Duke’s: Waikiki, Honolulu

Right: Guavapple pie. El Ideal Bakery: Silay City, Negros Occidental

Let the over-eating begin!

Top left: Lomi salmon, poi, Kahlua  pig, ribs. Helena’s: Honolulu

Top right: Green corn tamale, enchilada. Garcia’s: Arizona Mills

Bottom: Crispy pancit palabok, kare-kare, bagoong rice. Manam: BGC



Sipping coconut water through a straw like sophisticated toddlers

 Fresh buko: Aboy’s: Bacolod City

With seafood, any fin goes.

Lunch: Sinigang fish soup, buttered shrimp. Seaside Floating Restaurant: Silay City

Left: “The Ivy” white pizza. Grimaldi’s Pizzeria: Scottsdale Old Town

Top right: Birthday Lunch. Kapi’olani Culinary School: Diamond Head, Honolulu

 Bottom right: Ube macapuno shake. Manam: BGC

We tried to lead a healthy life, but the kitchen had other plans.

Negrense Lunch: Native chicken binakol, lechon, lumpia, lemon grass juice. Casa Gamboa: Silay, Negros Occidental

Ways to our heart – 

buy us food, make us food, be food!

(To Be Continued)