Ashes to ashes…
I suppose that was already made clear in our will.
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Maui: 2018 |
Needless to say, no wake or funeral. Life is too short for one, but
should you find the need to gather, let it be small. Among family only.
Above all else, let it be a celebration.
Black looks dreary. Let that day when tomorrow
starts without me be a splash of color.
I find no need for a sermon. After all, no funeral sermons were ever preached in the Bible. However, if you deem closure words
are in order, let them be brief, only from my daughters and their family. I find the scripture from Psalm 23 very comforting.
Music may be a consolation for the grieving, but rather than solo vocals, I'm partial to piano rendition from my daughters and Jach, as conditions allow and as they please. Perhaps folks singing Amazing Grace.
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Hawaii Kai: 2021 |
Come time to dispose of ashes, maybe outdoors, somewhere?
Where Chip and his kind, robins, and hummingbirds are; and seeds of the wheat grass fly
with the wind.
Not underground or in water.
I’m claustrophobic and can’t swim.
Definitely have an eating party afterward. Kuya Ian’s Filipino resto, perhaps? I hope he’d have buko pandan or leche flan, at least, for besert.
Please let my brothers know of my decision to drift rather than be interred among family in the Philippines. Though far across the distance and spaces, my spirit will always go on to them.
As I float upon a cloud, I’ll be watching with a smile.
When you look at the horizon, you can be certain that I’d be roaming free, in the perfection that’s mine at last.
Thanks for acquiescing.
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Adoracion Llenado Torio-Velasco
Bud, Mom, Grandma, Chon, Doris
August 21, 2025
Studio, Hawaii Kai: 2025