Saturday, October 16, 2021

Fairy House

Procraftinating

Definition: Working on craft projects when you should be doing laundry, making dinner, or cleaning house

Wishing you faeiries in your life, stardust in your soul, and magic in your days. - Janie Grissom

There’s nothing like it.

You….know….IT.

A fairy house.

That's how you can attract a fairy into your domain. Although fairies shelter under plants during the day, it is said that they do prefer a home to call their own.

At least, that's what legend says. But even if you don't believe in fairies, Second Granddaughter and I thought this was a great creative project. 

Here are its easy steps.

Imagine your fairy house. We located a spot under the crabapple tree in the backyard. We drew a rectangular shape on the ground, allowing for windows and a door. 

Gather materials. This was easy. Areas of moss that grew by the woodpile were plentiful. So were twigs and branches, bark, and tiny rocks.

Build the structure first, as Second Granddaughter said. Then, put the house together. It doesn’t have to be perfect. Just measure and cut pieces that fit around the edges. If some of the lines turn out wonky, it's okay.

Take a good look at your creation.

Here is a representation of how it looked (what we built was covered with fall leaves and unphotographable at the time this piece was written).

It looked faded and vintage but inviting, tying in elements of space with the outdoors. 

Dried branches were tucked over the structure which had been amply covered with greenery and moss. The latter was draped over the side of the house.

Pebbles were scattered, leading to the main entryway. Dried nuts and bark formed a small garden around.

And finally, sit back.

Enjoy decorating brilliance at its finest.

Appreciate a makeshift structure that fosters dreams. 

Celebrate a home where fairies will find light when all grows dark.


Saturday, October 9, 2021

African Mud Cloth

Procraftinating

Definition: Working on craft projects when you should be doing laundry, making dinner, or cleaning house

The art of simplicity is a puzzle of complexity. - Doug Horton

Several days ago, I was sipping herbal tea, flipping through my projects box when I came upon a homey piece of brown paper. A bit crumpled, filled with rows of fading geometric designs.

My heart skipped a bit. Have I just reached the cusp of my journey toward decorating nirvana?

What if...

Could I?

But before I go on, let me fill you in on the story behind my current design drama.

For the longest time, I've been obsessed with African mud cloth design. In fact, the whole time that we spent in Honolulu, I had nightly internet binges on how I could emulate this scheme in our home decor.

Mud cloth is made of cotton strips woven and stitched together. It is later painted with beautiful patterns using a special kind of mud. As the mud becomes dry, its color changes from dark brown or black to gray.

It has become very popular today because of its unique and exotic color and design.

I like.

I want.

So, rewind to the beginning of this blog...

Lo and behold, enlightenment had dawned on me. Heretofore hiding in plain sight was the mud cloth pattern of my dreams.

Let me show you.

Isn't it beautiful? I love the simplicity of the design. Understated. Stunning.

Should I?

YES, I SHOULD AND I DID.

I framed the brown parchment and my project was done. 

Just when I thought the dining room couldn't get any cuter?

It did.

Just when I thought I couldn’t love it any more?

I do.

Here it is - my longed for, now found, and very own unique mud cloth centerpiece.

Taking a closer look, though, I re-discovered something.

Something that made me tear up and sigh.

Something amazing.

That looked like this.

Can you see it?

It’s a little hard to make out.

Untitled Print by First Granddaughter.
Photo: V.E.V., August 2021

You’d never even notice it if you weren’t looking.

A name. Isela.

Dated 2016-2018 (info I added at a long-time-ago archive time after consulting with First Daughter).

A moment in time.

It made me think of the curly-haired girl, five years old at the time, who left the mark of her tiny fingers on this piece of art. 



Choosing the right shape. Dabbing it onto brown sepia paint. Stamping each on a crinkly piece of drab wrapping. Aligning forms.

And I remembered.

Sometime ago, I received a fingerprint greeting with this inscription:

My hand will do a thousand things for you. And you will remember, when I am tall, that once my hand was just this small.

First Granddaughter's Right Hand Fingerprint, 4.25" long with 5" stretch, at three years



And a foto.

On the back, she signed her name, each letter painstakingly written, Hebrew-style, from right to left.

My dear First Granddaughter, you already have done more than a thousand things for me.

Tiny, crafted projects. 


Little slices of yesterday.

Timeless treasures that will be locked deep in my soul.






Saturday, October 2, 2021

Coffee Bar

Procraftinating

Definition: Working on craft projects when you should be doing laundry, making dinner, or cleaning house

Being crafty isn't just a hobby. It's a way of life. So, here's my life, starting with this DIY coffee station at home.
 
There are so many ways to set it up.

You can use your kitchen counter or build it from a vintage crate or a pallet shelf. Add the right accessories, like a cute wire basket and a milk glass vase of dried eucalyptus and cotton bolls.

But what really brings it to life, Pinterest says, is that slogan on the wall. The ​quote that urges you, Rise and grind.

The framed affirming statement, All you need is love and more coffee.

The hopeful wish, May your coffee be strong and your Monday be short.

Of course, I wanted a coffee bar but - puleeze! - none of the farmhouse signs that direct your every action. Drink. Early bird. Sip. Sorry... not my style.

I did concede to a sign. 

After binge staring at Pinterest for hours and hours and hours…

… I discovered that in addition to the coffee maker all my setup needed was this.


A 3"x3" framed canvas. 


Up top was a stamped image of two small monstera fronds.

Right-justified and decoupaged on the bottom was text, all lowercase, in my favorite Chambord script font, stay grounded.

I liked the metaphor and the fact that it wasn't trite.

So here’s to coffee, real and decaf. 


And remember, stay grounded.

I can drink to that. 


Tuesday, September 28, 2021

Happy Birthday, My Rainbow!

Moment the sky embraces the earth is called a rainbow. - Corina Negura

There was this baby girl who, like a rainbow, came into our life that one early, foggy morning in Chicago. 

She was so cute that her Pa thought she would even be cuter if he drew a beard and mustache on her tiny face.

I thought she looked like a sampaguita flower. I nicknamed her, Gigit.

She was doted on by her Sissy. She called her, Eye-eye.

What wasn't to like? She was fun-sized, tiny, vertically-challenged, ticklish, and giggly.

I often would dress her in an outfit that matched Elder Sister's. Same robe after a bath.

Matching clothes while at play in the snow or in a sandbox in Milwaukee.

The question I was always asked, Are they twins? How I wish now that I had the cheekiness to say, No, I found the extra kid in the parking lot and thought, Why not?

Someone said that in the cookies of life, a little girl is the chocolate chips. She was -  and more.


 

She was the cool breeze in a humid afternoon in Hawaii. 

The one with the impish grin (not sure what smile# that was), posing with a childhood friend in California and her Sissy. 

The accomplice to a no-longer-secret acquisition of pet bunnies. 

The adorable clown playing hand bells to the tune of Send in the Clowns. 


From a mini-me, she grew up, striking a signature clasped-arms pose in her kindergarten photo...

... and in her senior pic as well.




Like her Sissy, she became an accomplished classical pianist performing in monthly recitals and special occasions.







And she grew older, celebrating with us many milestone occasions...










... and vacations.







Today she's a little bit older, a lot more fabulous, and professionally accomplished. Talk about being CIV of the Month for the Columbus Division of Police.  

Or being recipient of a surprise-of-a-lifetime collective gesture and monetary gift for outstanding service at the height of the pandemic.



And best of all? Just as she has been a blessing to us, she herself has received the best gift of all.

Someone who stole her heart and calls her, Mama.

Today is a celebration for Eye-eye on her birthday.

My rainbow, Gigit, my anchor.

Our Second Daughter.






All life's best to you on this especial day!

With you by my side, I do know that it we'w be o'wight. 








P.S. My anchor, attached to an open parachute, has just soared over 300 feet into the air and is getting towed by a motorboat. 

Lord, have mercy!






Parasailing. Gulf Shores, Alabama: August 2021

Saturday, September 25, 2021

Walking Blendon Woods: A Million Different Things

One Step At A Time

Walk as if you're kissing the earth with your feet. - Thich Nhat Hanh

A couple of months ago, I made the momentous decision that taking slow, romantic walks down the craft aisles at Jo-Ann's was not doing me any good. Ditto for places that rhymed with Forever 21 and Ross.

Also, that there was more to life than shopping and weekday-only walks on the treadmill.

That was when I pledged to start walking outdoors in earnest and catch up on the many rare little treats and glimpses of life I'd missed.  

Let me share with you some delights of a typical day of walking our Blendon Woods neighborhood.

For starters, it offers you plenty of blue sky above, along with but a few clouds in promise of an early fall day.

In Early Morning.
All Photos: V.E.V., Columbus, 2021

Walking along, I have sometimes felt like ditching my New Balance footwear and putting on some cowboy boots instead so I can start saying, Y’all!

Consider these street names. You walk along Boulder Creek Dam and turn right onto  Big Sky. Coming out on the main strip, you walk on toward Bear Tooth, pass by Blue River to the cul de sac on the corner of Wagon Wheel.

There is always something to watch.

Walnut and maple trees that line the streets lift up in the breeze like the arms of ballerinas. Steps away on either side are wildflower-strewn pathways toward homes. They look like they're ready for a floral frolic extravaganza.

Everything is completely calm.  

Some houses are still asleep, their garden abundant with hydrangea and black-eyed Susans. Others are just waking up with movement from within. 

Peering at frontages, I keep wondering, Why is there always a wreath on the door? It's so farmhouse. But yet, secretly, I keep thinking that I need to make one. Perhaps something different. Like a southwest weaving.

And how fun to have a rocking chair on the front porch, or perhaps an adirondack.

A brown cottontail rabbit hopping in a leisurely way up the wooded preserve disturbs my thoughts. She reminds me of First Daughter's Sniffy. Could it be her spirit restored back to life now romping among the elderberry bush?

A family of squirrels skitters through the leaves. I follow them until they scamper up a tree, their claws clicking and scraping against the bark. Then they sit on a limb, chattering excitedly, scolding me.





Then, these astounding discoveries.

A family of deer, all gangly limbs, stand at a distance, as if acknowledging my presence, and then turn back toward the shadows.



                                          Deer Sighting


The first maple leaf repainted bright orange by fall's brush, almost overnight.

And by the wayside, a squash that has turned to a golden yellow, ready to be picked.

Of late, rounding off the morning with a walk by the back deck, I saw these.

A ruby-throated hummingbird doing backward somersaults toward our nectar feeder. Then, darting so eagerly, so swiftly, sweetly sipping.




A lone white-breasted hummingbird looking like a white petal perched atop a browning lilac branch. 





And an old pal, our resident chipmunk which we've named Chip, nibbling on his new-favorite breakfast of a bagel scrap.

The hour is still early. I nod and smile into the brisk early-morning breeze that is blowing directly at me.



 Brr... (Yes, Younger Daughter. You told me you had a tank on during your morning run. But it's 59 degrees and I'm wearing a sweatshirt to ward off the 'morning chill' in the air.)

The neighborhood is slowly coming to life. I begin to hear children's voices and the quick beep of a car nosing its way out of the alley. Must be time for school bus pickup.

Everything else, the energizing feeling of the day and the sequence and clarity of its events  have been mixed up together. Jumbled up, finally coalescing into one full extraordinary day.

Instead of ice cream and popsicles, here's to dreaming of cozying up with mugs of hot cider and slices of pumpkin pie. 

And wishing your day be full of the extraordinary, too.

P.S. All truly great thoughts are envisioned while walking. I conceived of this series on a walk.


Saturday, September 18, 2021

Vintage Furniture

From The Archives

The best things in life are old, loved and preserved. - Anonymous

Second Brother now occupies the front of four units in the Emilia Compound. He fondly calls it ancestral home because that was where Mum and Dadee moved into after bequeathing the actual 'ancestral' unit behind it to Fourth Brother. 

(Aside: Second Brother used to occupy the fourth unit at the end of the compound but that's a whole 'musical chairs' deal that you can read about, if you're interested, as posted in this year's July 17 Abodes series.)  

Anyway, there are four pieces of furniture that have remained in the house. I am deeply moved and grateful that Second Brother has proudly retained and preserved them.

Here they are.


narra wardrobe purchased same day as today, 73 years ago

Dated on its inside door in Dadee's handwriting, it was Mum's clothing aparador. 



It was where she also kept her Brilliantine hair oil, Camara cuban-heeled shoes, and Maja perfume (Myrurgia’s iconic fragrance since 1918, as I've just recently learned) - the last two items used only for especial occasions. 

Now modernized on its exterior with fashionable dirty-white paint and used by Second Brother's daughter. 







Mum's Singer sewing machine, circa 1950 

Mum sewed many of my dresses using this foot-pedaled machine. 

Now painted black, repurposed as a mini-bar. 





Sungkaan, circa 1920, from Lolo Gorio's old house

We used it for playing the Filipino mancala game. 

The small cups are called bahays (houses) and each of the larger cups is referred to as the ulo (head). We used sampaloc tamarind seeds for the playing pieces. 



Lolo Gorio's narra desk, circa 1890

 A prized heirloom piece passed on to Dadee, it survived tropical storm Ondoy, the second most devastating tropical cyclone of the 2009 Pacific typhoon season. 

It's still standing as a desk for Second Brother's use.

Our home should tell the story of who we are, and be a collection of what we love brought together under one roof. 

I believe and am proud to say that Second Brother has done just that.


Walking Delano Drive: 'Edge Of The World'

One Step At A Time

Beyond this world are countless dimensions that stretch on forever. - Rama

Thoreau may have been the literary world’s poster boy for walking. He had this passion for rambling through the woods. The hippie of literature, he thought everyone should walk around ponds all day.

But we did better.

In Casa Grande, we walked to the 'edge of the world.'



It was an easy mid-morning walk for me and the girls. Delano Drive where our home was located looped around the Rancho Grande neighborhood. 

It was quiet, except for the distant barking of dogs. The sky was light and blue above, marred by only a thin line of half-hearted clouds over the distant mountains.

Our House On Delano Drive. Casa Grande, AZ. Google Maps


For miles and miles, the Arizona desert, dotted by tall, columnar saguaros and spiny ocotillo, was otherwise flat and clear. 

So much earth. 

So much sky. 

Around midpoint on the loop, the road steepened and the ground it traversed narrowed enormously. Suddenly in front of us, there was nothing but sky and a ledge that carved down many hundreds of feet deep.

Cautiously, we peered below. The trees were so dense we couldn't tell where one began and the other ended.

It seemed to be all one tree with a thousand trunks and a billion branches and infinite roots.

The scenery appeared almost out of focus. A light mist that had lingered blurred everything else making the ravine vanish to a blank, gray haze.

We stood side by side on the narrow patch of grass, watching as the morning sun brightened. 

I didn't know it then - that 'we lived on the edge of the world,' until First Daughter said something about it years after.

It took the eyes of a four-year-old for me to realize that, yes, we did.

It was a time in our life when it seemed like the roof had been lifted and we could see the dawning of a vast and infinite world.  

And we were this much closer to the heavens.